Everything that you are dealing with negatively or positively has a
Cause and Affect
If you are having trouble emotionally
Whether or not its directed towards a love one or not
Has a cause and affect
You heard your mother said when you were young;
You better check your emotions at the door
Well you know if you didn’t do it there will be an effect.
You might then ask, what cause this?
Well, it was something that you did that caused her to want to train you in this area.
The effect is that if it continues you will feel much of the effects of it.
Dealing with emotions is only one area, but it’s a major area for most of your problems.
We all know that negative emotions lead to negative thinking.
If you can’t get your emotions in check,
Don’t make any decisions that will affect you in the long run.
Listen and observe carefully when making great decision that will have great consequences.
There will be the cause and what will be the affect is to don’t listen carefully to sound reasoning?
Matthew 7:24 NIV
But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.
If you are having a problem with someone, before you even start to try to deal with this situation, you must pull out your secret weapon.
Yes, you can get the answer you need from God when you take this situation to him.
But, something a lot of people have been missing is this one thing.
Prayer is for you
Philippians 4:6-7 NIV
Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
It’s like a medicine.
Because, once you humble yourself and take it to God, already the peace is there waiting on you.
Here is another one.
Don’t take that person to God in your prayer
Take only you to God in prayer.
God sees what this person has caused you.
Prayer in this case is for you.
You will learn a lot about you in a prayer like this.
You can do this with everything in life that you are really struggling about, like how to deal with someone or something.
Making a decision about what to do about you and what to do about your feelings on every situation in your life.
Take it with you in prayer.
This is a major tool in dealing with
Cause and affect
Because, if you do not properly deal with the cause right now rather than later, ask yourself, what will be the effect?
How will it turn out if left unchecked at the door?
A real door or the door to that certain thing or situation
Cause of something that gave you a problem.
Not dealing with it in an effective manner will give you something much greater,
That’s the effect.
So in order to save yourself a lot of pain and emotional problems
The best thing to do is take it all to God.
Then most assuredly there will be answers and ways to deal with your cause and that will be lead to a good effect.
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