I was not going to write on this subject and some of the things I am about to say, but I believe after hearing it in my head, that I had to at least write it down.
I want to start with something you may or may not agree with.
Here are some of the reasons why people choose same sax relationships?
First, I would like to say that I had a fight with this early in my life, and up until my first semester in college, I thought it was behind me.
But, I never really addressed it head on until that first semester.
To many of you that may know this, it happened too many of us in our child hood, whether you are a male or female.
It starts off as innocent or discovery, then it will elevate or stop as we recognize what it is and we move on in life.
No, I was not doing the seen things for the whole world to see.
It was only in discovering the feelings of sex and what a pleasure it could be.
When in the first semester of college I had enough of it, because I thought it was behind me and fought hard to end this, because this time it was going to for.
I focus hard on what I should have been focusing on and never looked back.
Leviticus 18:22 NIV
“‘Do not have sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman; that is detestable.
I have talked with and been around a few females that were not just struggling with it, but where actually all the way into it.
Romans 1:24-25 NIV
Therefore God gave them over in the sinful desires of their hearts to sexual impurity for the degrading of their bodies with one another. 25 They exchanged the truth about God for a lie, and worshiped and served created things rather than the Creator—who is forever praised. Amen.
Romans 1:26-27 NASB
For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.
For young boys that are too young to remember, a mother or father should have been there to help them focus on the right things.
For young men who are weak in this area, struggling with identity, finding it hard to focus on girls and talking with girls, but given in easily to desires finding themselves giving in easily to same sex relationships .
Those feelings and desires don’t make you gay.
Do not get caught up in a name.
You are not gay.
I wanted to feel good too, but don’t take the easy road out.
Winning the battle is what you must do to overcome things in life.
It’s just a part of our makeup.
Men and women that have struggled with relationships, no matter before or after marriage, you too must not give into desires and the temptations of the same sex.
I know it’s easy to do, just like putting a cigarette, chocolate, other foods, drinking or drugs in your mouth to help you deal with or coupe with life issues.
I know you want to feel loved.
I know you want to feel desired.
I know you don’t want to fight any more.
I know you want the hurt and pain to go away.
I know confiding in a friend or person of the same sex, feels like they know what you are going through and they are there to help you go through it.
That’s fine and good for that purpose only, but to find love and sexually pleasure in that person will only take you into another world and out of the game of life.
It’s very easy to lose control and give into thoughts that are meant to keep you in an area where you lose and have lost.
The fighting against desires keeps you in the race.
The more you pile up a bunch of victories over this desire called Sexually Perversion; you will distance yourself from it.
It will creep up in your mind less and less until one day it will be out of your life and mind for good.
If your problem is the people you hang out with, then you know what to do.
Remember, you are where you are because of the way you think and the people you hang out with.
It’s easy; you are already doing it.
That’s finding people that are at or heading in the direction you want to be or going and then hanging out with them.
You must feed your mind knowledge.
Knowledge can be a weapon against the thoughts you’re having and it can help you get the things you need to succeed in life.
I know loosing at one relationship or dozens of relationships could make you what to change, but do not change that way towards same sex, but change what you are doing wrong in those relationships so that you can have a better one.
It’s just like the women who keep getting involved with a certain type of guy, just to end up being hurt over and over again, but she desires that type of guy and she should know that she will never change him.
The only one you can change is you.
Change yourself and you will be drawn to the right person.
No, it may not be great, but it will be better.
In a relationship each person should worry about doing their part and not the part of the other person.
Let’s not forget about those who got into sexual perversion through abuse from someone taken advantage of someone either by force or self will.
Is same sex a disease?
No, but we can become addicted to sexually perversion.
It’s just like any other addiction.
You must remember that all our battles are in our mind, and if you win there you will win in life.
There is a purpose for sexually perversions.
It’s just another item on our list that we must conquer.
John 16:33 NIV
“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
Having faith that you will win is how to conquer the challenges in life.
Remember, you are not going through any issue in life that you cannot handle are it would not have been allowed in your life.
Seek wisdom from above for all areas of your life.
These bodies are just like instruments and like computers.
They have to be programmed and updated with information to operate to the highest efficiency.
Don’t let it pull you down to its level.
You are more than what you think you are and never let anyone tell you different.
Make positive choices that lead to a positive outcome.
Make positive confessions, they will help in you focusing on the right things and you find yourself become stronger where you are weak.
Find a good support group.
Not one that keeps you saying things that will keep you in bondage.
John 8:36 KJV
If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.
It’s ok to fall, but it’s not ok to stay down.
So now cross this one off your list.
I am done with it.
Be gone from me, in the name that is above all names.
Psalms for Life: “The Pocket Guide to Successful Living in Christ Jesus”